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Your Relationship With Money Is All About Your Consciousness

Anita DaltonWhen it comes to money, consciousness is most important. If you spend time around wealthy people and the middle class, It’s really an experience to discover the difference of how they both think.

The middle class tends to be negative about money and most believe it isn’t possible for them to earn a lot of it. The self made rich , on the other hand believe anything is possible. They have a positive attitude about money and all the good things they can do with it.

While the middle class say “I can’t afford it”, the wealthy know that affording something is not relevant. It really doesn’t matter if the money is there now. The real question is , “Am I passionate enough about this Idea to create other people with money to help me create my dream. Do I believe in myself enough to have the Universe send me the money.”

There is a pervasive belief among the masses that tells them they don’t have the right or are not good enough to ask, hope or pray for prosperity beyond their basic needs. How would they handle millions of dollars? Wealthy people believe they are as good as anyone else and deserve to be rich so they can serve others even more. The behavior that believes there is enough for everyone is what fuels their passion.

Most people have a fear of losing what little money they have. This makes them extremely conservative with money. They fear if they loose it, they won’t make it back. Rich people ,on the other hand, know there is a risk involved. They might loose, but that’s part of the game and they believe they will always be able to earn more.

The majority of people drag themselves to a job they hate with the dream of someday retiring. Some get sick and even die when that time finally comes. Ask yourself this, Is it really possible to get rich now doing what I love. If this belief can be established, then your on your way to living your dream. Why should you settle for anything less? You deserve to be happy. It’s you God given right. Change your mind about money now and see what happens. Namaste, Anita D.


About the Center for the New Age

Spirit guided us to this special place which centuries earlier was used by ancient people as a ceremonial site. We were guided by Spirit to open the Center at this place which is now the heart of spirituality in Sedona.

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We’ve searched the globe and pulled the most accurate Psychics and Healers and amazing Massage-Therapists from all over the world who have come here to be part of this special community, whose energy makes them even more psychic. Their services are offered at the Center daily and by phone at (928) 282-2085.

Center for the New Age
341 State Route 179
across from Tlaquepaque
Sedona, AZ 86336-6111

888-881-6651 Free
928-282-2085 Main
928-282-7220 Concierge


www.sedonanewagestore.com

sedonanewage@gmail.com

 

Let’s Talk About Love and Relationship

Anita DaltonA few years ago I was in a relationship with someone who I thought was really not in love with me. Ok he said the L word, but I really wasn’t feeling it. Then he said “Oh, you mean the Romantic Kind of love. I said” hello is that not what we’re doing in relationship. He handed me the course in Miracles. When I read how it described Love, I said I hate this book. I’m throwing it in the garbage and you with it.

Love means different things depending on the level of consciousness you’re at. We see people all the time at the Center who want the psychic to tell them when they are going to meet the one. There is no one. The one is you. The law of attraction says you have to love yourself enough to do the work to make you worthy for that special person to share you with. Most people are looking for someone to love them with all their flaws. If he really loved me then he won’t notice I have baggage or that I’m jealous have low self-esteem and no teeth.

As love becomes Spiritual, it takes on a whole different meaning. In the old days when women couldn’t support themselves and their children they had to settle for what they got. It’s not that way now. You can choose to have someone of your own level of consciousness.

At lower levels of consciousness, what is preserved as love is conditional and identified with possession. That what the ring is about. You’re taken. I’ve spent a lot of money on that ring and your mine.

Then Passion and romance are put into the mix to make that person feel really special and desired. Then when the glamour begins to fade after the prized object or relationship is obtained, the excitement also fades. Look what I won, I must be really special.

Infatuations are frantic with fear of loss that then leads to despair. Interference with the possession or the brake up can result in very severe emotional reactions, such as rage, jealousy even murder and suicide. YOU’VE HEARD THE TERM MADLY IN LOVE. This is how divorce lawyers get rich. If you were really in love, you would want the other person’s happiness even if it didn’t include you. My husband came home one day after 10 years and said” I don’t want to do this anymore. “I said, ‘OK can you be out by Saturday.” “That’s it, you’re not going to go crazy,” he replied. He had no idea who I was. What was for his highest and best good, had to be for mine. Thank you Universe. It was. Look back at some of your former relationships, are you glad you’re not still in them.

Because conditions of Love and passion are frequently confused, we think we are in Love when it’s really just lust. The contrast is between ego evolvement versus consensual alignment of self. The higher intention is of serving the relationship rather than just what the ego’s wanting’s or cravings.

Interesting enough is that passion vibrates 145 level and Spirit self-love 500+. The left brain physical at 145 and the right brain etheric 500


About the Center for the New Age

Spirit guided us to this special place which centuries earlier was used by ancient people as a ceremonial site. We were guided by Spirit to open the Center at this place which is now the heart of spirituality in Sedona.

Description

We’ve searched the globe and pulled the most accurate Psychics and Healers and amazing Massage-Therapists from all over the world who have come here to be part of this special community, whose energy makes them even more psychic. Their services are offered at the Center daily and by phone at (928) 282-2085.

Center for the New Age
341 State Route 179
across from Tlaquepaque
Sedona, AZ 86336-6111

888-881-6651 Free
928-282-2085 Main
928-282-7220 Concierge


www.sedonanewagestore.com

info@sedonanewagecenter.com

Helping Clients with Relationship Issues

Frank‘A Checklist Which Includes Bedroom Intimacy’
By Psychic Reader, Frank Demato

Working as a psychic reader at the center for over a year I would say at least half of my clients have issues with either a current or a past relationship and in some cases choosing a lifetime partner from multiple relationships. Some of my clients have been married for a long time but the relationship has gone sour, some are in between multiple relationships not knowing which one would be the better choice as a lifetime partner and others are in a relationship but their partner has been unfaithful. Of course we all know there are many ingredients that go into making a great relationship where both parties are happy. Examples would be communication, respect for your partner’s emotions, interests and vice a versa. But right there at the top of the list, should be SEX! In the words of comedian Joan Rivers… ‘Oh grow up! None of us would be here on this planet without sex. You don’t know how many times I have heard a ‘spiritual’ individual tell me sex was not important. That thinking will only lead to unhappiness and health problems later in life. More on that later. I guarantee you there is nothing spiritual about sexual intercourse and intimacy. It is a very basic part of our human design and very ‘animalistic’ in its function. It had to be by God’s design for procreation of the human species. Acts of sexual intimacy do not involve a higher spiritual self-awareness. They involve pure animal behavior. Let us not lose sight of the fact that we are not angels nor pure spiritual beings. We do have a spirit but it is tethered to animal hormones and behavior. If we ignore this fact and choose to have a non-sexual relationship we are doing harm to our physical bodies. When you shut down the root or sexual chakra, you are in essence blocking energy to that area of the body and it soon starts affecting the other chakra centers causing disease and dysfunction of other organs because the body’s energy is not flowing properly. So right at the top of my checklist is the bedroom intimacy with regard to relationship issues.

If I see a relationship problem while doing a reading for a client, I will bluntly ask them ‘how is the bedroom life?’. Of course, as a psychic, nine times out of ten, I already know the answer. But by asking my client I have smoothly segwayed to the topic of sex which may be on their mind but not mentioned due to shyness. I find that when I ask first, most of my clients start singing like a canary. ‘We had great sex for the first five years, now it doesn’t seem to matter to my partner but it matters to me.’ Believe it or not, I have more women clients complaining about the frequency or quality of their sex life than I have male clients. There could be many reasons for lack of interest by one party. From health and physiological to psychological to infidelity. As a psychic, I can usually nail down the reason. Once I nail down the reason for the lack of interest, I tell my client to bluntly confront their partner and try to fix the issue. If the issue is unfixable I usually advise my client to cut their losses and bug out of the relationship before the issues start affecting their own health as well.

On numerous occasions I have had clients who were juggling as many as three different intimate relationships at the same time. Most of those clients want to know in which relationship they will be the happiest in. If I were to bluntly tell my client it is the relationship they are having the best sex in, they would think that I was being rather ‘Freudian’. Instead what I do is a Tarot card method which I have developed for divining that precise answer. Question is: Will I be happier with Tom, Dick or Harry? I shuffle the cards thinking of the question while asking the cards to reveal the first King suit card combined with the major arcana ‘Devil’ card. The Devil card signifies pure animal lust and sexual energy. Combined with a King card, it will give me the answer I am looking for in the sex department. I then divide the deck into three separate stacks. One will be Tom, the second one is Dick and the third is Harry. I start turning over cards from each stack. The stack which contains a King card and the Devil card is my answer. That answer is based purely on sex. Yes, my client may have better communication rapport with Tom. And Harry may be more sensitive and caring. But ultimately the human sexual drive and energy will always win out in any relationship because we were designed that way. I then tell my client that partner A is better for them sexually. They usually verify that fact. Then I ask them to either work on making that relationship better in the communication and caring department or work on making one of the other two better in the sexual department. Choice being theirs. Now my client has some tools to work with and a homework assignment. What is the lesson of the day? The human sexual drive is the strongest energy there is in our lives next to the instinct to survive. Love is universal. It permeates all aspects of our lives. But love in a relationship based purely on love without sex will never last a lifetime. The same goes for a relationship just based on sex without the love. It too will not last. The relationships which last a lifetime are the ones which have both love and sex in high abundance. And that my friends is very rare when you find it. So cherish it when you do.

 


About the Center for the New Age

Spirit guided us to this special place which centuries earlier was used by ancient people as a ceremonial site. We were guided by Spirit to open the Center at this place which is now the heart of spirituality in Sedona.

Description
We’ve searched the globe and pulled the most accurate Psychics and Healers and amazing Massage-Therapists from all over the world who have come here to be part of this special community, whose energy makes them even more psychic. Their services are offered at the Center daily and by phone at (928) 282-2085.

Center for the New Age
341 State Route 179
across from Tlaquepaque
Sedona, AZ 86336-6111

888-881-6651 Free
928-282-2085 Main
928-282-7220 Concierge

www.sedonanewagestore.com

info@sedonanewagecenter.com

 

Relationships

Relationships

Relationships
By Anita Dalton

Many years ago I gave up doing relationships. I just couldn’t get it right. I told myself I was just lousy at picking the right person, so I gave up. Now I watch my children and grandchildren going through the same stuff I did. There is so much Drama. My daughter is on her third husband. I heard a statistic the other day that most 40 year old women have already been married 3 times. Is this true? It was for me.

You’ve heard it said that we attract the same person over and over to ourselves. We do, until we change. You see, there are only three kinds of relationships. The first one is with God. The second is with self. And the third is with others. When we do it backwards, it doesn’t work. We don’t know God. Our self is twisted and incomplete. Then we try to find others to make up for that. If we found God first, then developed our healthy self, finding a relationship to compliment us would be easy. These are the relationships called gifts. You can’t pray for them or beg for them. You have to earn them. How you earn them is by working on you through the other karmic relationships that mirror where you where you need to change.

There are all kinds of self-help books out there to help you use the “law of attraction” to find your soul mate. Problem is you can’t attract what you are not. You are a vibrational being, which means you vibrate at a certain frequency. You think you have attracted this amazing person of your dreams; actually, it’s your fantasy. It’s just an illusion you created in your mind, unless you really know who you are. Now the person whom you think is your vibration wants to play with you too, so they create an illusion of whom they think you are. Even if you’re not looking for a love relationship, you are in a relationship with your co-workers, friends and family. And so because we are social beings, we create different dramas so that we can look in the mirror and reflect on who we are and where we are in our vibration.

We are so much more than our physical appearance. Yet that is the first thing we consider when we meet someone. And since we want them to know how amazing we really are, we can’t wait to share the ego fantasy of our self. We humans have this insatiable desire to articulate our set of beliefs to another even if they cannot possibly understand it. When you’re on one vibration, even though you work hard to communicate your point of view with precision, they cannot understand where you’re coming from. Now you become frustrated because they “Don’t Get You”. If they would just behave differently, you would be free to be who you are. The harder you try to convince them, the more out of sync you get with yourself. Now you question your own belief.

When you know yourself as the God vibration, you really are. You don’t need someone else to “get you”, or fill in the holes. Your healthy self knows what it’s up to and is able to sooth itself from the inside. You actually enjoy your own company. You can be honest about your faults or shortcomings you may still be working on. The ego doesn’t have to put on an act. Now you just might attract a person with integrity. Only when you both know who you really are and respect each other’s differences, can a relationship turn into a Holy Relationship.

Being disconnected from God and your true higher self creates an angst in you. Now we try to fix that, but if you haven’t done your self inventory, and if you’re just pretending you’re perfect, then you are in addiction. You’re using something outside of yourself to make you feel good. You reach out to others or substances to fix your discomfort. Co-dependence is the worst addiction because we’re all in it to some degree. We meet another person we think we like and we say, “Hi There.”. What we’re really saying is, “Help Me.” And when they can’t, we blame them. We don’t like them because they are mirroring what’s wrong with us.

It’s only when you become your authentic self are you ready for “The Gift.” Until then you are technically dangerous and full of drama.

The love you’re really looking for isn’t the lower chakra kind; it doesn’t reside in the body’s pelvic area. It resides in the higher chakras. It is best described as the love a mother has for her child. It unconditional. And it brings with it respect. It lives through guidance from our higher source. It radiates from within us. And its vibration is filled with peace and joy. A Course in Miracles says, “Love will enter into any mind that truly wants it, but it must want it truly without ambivalence.” And this kind of wanting is wholly without the ego’s drive to “get it.” It is an experience so different from anything the ego can imagine. You need no force, except that of your own will to get it. It’s what the whole game on planet Earth is about. It’s what we came here to do. We came to find LOVE.

About the Center for the New Age

Spirit guided us to this special place which centuries earlier was used by an ancient people as a ceremonial site. We were guided by Spirit to open the Center at this place which is now the heart of spirituality in Sedona.

Description
We’ve searched the globe and pulled the most accurate Psychics and Healers and amazing Massage-Therapists from all over the world who have come here to be part of this special community, whose energy makes them even more psychic. Their services are offered at the Center daily and by phone at (928) 282-2085.

Center for the New Age
341 State Route 179
Across from Tlaquepaque
Sedona, AZ 86336-6111

888-881-6651 Free
928-282-2085 Main
928-282-7220 Concierge

www.sedonanewagestore.com
info@sedonanewagecenter.com